Watch out for your ego

Sometimes the ego prolongs the pain by whining that there are no legitimate reasons why the person has left you. It can be helpful to say out loud "He/She just doesn't want me. I can still be hot, smart, intelligent, fun, caring, sweet, sexy and delicious - but they just don't want whatever I have to offer." See the bigger picture. You don't run after every hot bargain in town either :)